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HOW TO CARRY BAGGAGE THAT WAS NEVER YOURS

HOW TO CARRY BAGGAGE THAT WAS NEVER YOURS

Good evening. Or morning. Or whatever time you’re reading this. I live in multiple timelines, with one foot in Tokyo and the other in timelessness. My Tokyo-self makes sure my...

HOW TO CARRY BAGGAGE THAT WAS NEVER YOURS

Good evening. Or morning. Or whatever time you’re reading this. I live in multiple timelines, with one foot in Tokyo and the other in timelessness. My Tokyo-self makes sure my...

I LIED MY WAY INTO LOVE

I LIED MY WAY INTO LOVE

Her symptoms started when she was 47. I was just 17. At first, it seemed like an extension of her usual forgetfulness or casual carefreeness. But then she missed the...

I LIED MY WAY INTO LOVE

Her symptoms started when she was 47. I was just 17. At first, it seemed like an extension of her usual forgetfulness or casual carefreeness. But then she missed the...

THE ENTITLEMENT OF THE VICTIM IDENTITY

THE ENTITLEMENT OF THE VICTIM IDENTITY

“You’re welcome.” I caught myself thinking it, but didn't say it. Not just because he hadn't said "Thank you," but because it didn't quite feel like a pure "You're welcome" on...

THE ENTITLEMENT OF THE VICTIM IDENTITY

“You’re welcome.” I caught myself thinking it, but didn't say it. Not just because he hadn't said "Thank you," but because it didn't quite feel like a pure "You're welcome" on...

DEAR MAE: ON SEEKING APPROVAL

DEAR MAE: ON SEEKING APPROVAL

Recently, I received a letter from a reader: “Dear Mae, can I ask you a question? This is really embarrassing to admit as a mother and a wife but my...

DEAR MAE: ON SEEKING APPROVAL

Recently, I received a letter from a reader: “Dear Mae, can I ask you a question? This is really embarrassing to admit as a mother and a wife but my...

LET IT UNFOLD GRACEFULLY

LET IT UNFOLD GRACEFULLY

Dear Ones,  And, dear self— After years and months of toiling away, I am delighted to announce that I have arrived at last. Not because I’ve finally achieved the thing...

LET IT UNFOLD GRACEFULLY

Dear Ones,  And, dear self— After years and months of toiling away, I am delighted to announce that I have arrived at last. Not because I’ve finally achieved the thing...

THE DREAM'S JUST DOING ITS JOB

THE DREAM'S JUST DOING ITS JOB

You say you want to become a writer. Or a singer. Or to find love. Or start a business. You dream that once it happens, you’ll finally feel happy. Settled....

THE DREAM'S JUST DOING ITS JOB

You say you want to become a writer. Or a singer. Or to find love. Or start a business. You dream that once it happens, you’ll finally feel happy. Settled....